- Announce marriage engagement and mail picture to hometown and local newspapers.
- Set a wedding date.
- Determine a budget for your wedding.
- Estimate the size and theme for your wedding and reception.
- Select a location for the wedding ceremony.
- Determine your need for a wedding consultant.
12-9 Months in Advance of Your Wedding - Review marriage laws and meet with the Officiant who will be presiding over your ceremony.
- Select your wedding attendants (bridesmaids, groomsmen, maid of honor, best man, ushers, ring-bearer, flower girls, etc)
- Meet with family to determine your wedding guest list.
- Select a location for the wedding reception.
- Determine your color scheme and begin shopping for your wedding dress.
- Select a photographer and Videographer for your wedding.
9 - 6 Months in Advance of Your Wedding - Determine the wedding and reception music and entertainment.
- Select a reception caterer.
- Make rehearsal dinner reservations for the wedding party.
- Plan your floral budget, select flower variety and bouquet style, and select a florist.
- Select maid of honor's and bridesmaids' attire.
- Reserve transportation for bride, groom and wedding party.
- Determine your honeymoon destination and make travel plans.
- Reserve accommodations for your out of town wedding guests.
- Develop a beverage and libation list for your wedding reception.
6 - 4 months in advance of your wedding - Select groomsmen's attire.
- Order all wedding attire.
- Buy wedding rings.
- Order wedding cake.
- Order printed items such as stationery, wedding invitations, matches, napkins, and thank you notes.
- Register for gifts.
- Purchase accessories (veil, shoes, jewelry, etc.)
- Assist mothers in selecting attire.
- Schedule vacation time from work.
4 - 2 Months in Advance of Your Wedding - Confirm wedding attire availability and delivery dates.
- Purchase ceremonial accessories (toasting glasses, ring pillow, guest book, favors, etc.)
- Mail wedding invitations.
- Purchase gifts for attendants.
- Secure marriage license and schedule blood test.
- Confirm ceremony of vows from Officiant, or write your own.
- Choose readings for the marriage ceremony.
- Revise legal documents (wills, leases, insurance, etc.)
- Order reception beverages and libations and finalize bar arrangements.
1 Month in Advance of Your Wedding - Final fittings of wedding party gowns and/or dresses.
- Schedule appointment with your hairdresser.
- Re-confirm availability and delivery of all goods and services.
- Complete bride's name-change documents and legal documents.
- Obtain marriage license and blood test results.
- Write toasts for rehearsal and reception dinner.
1 Week in Advance of Your Wedding - Pack for your wedding and honeymoon.
- Notify reception venue of the final head count.
- Compile a comprehensive last minute check-list, being sure to include the easily overlooked items.
The Night before Your Wedding Day
- Try to get a good night's sleep!